How does one succeed in life?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How do I cope with the fact that I will never have a girlfriend?

Do not set goals—set systems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

How exactly do things get smuggled into prison? Does the sender hide it inside something else very well? Does someone put it in their butt? Do the prisoners make deals with the officers?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

What I need from you?

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

If English makes 3 additional gender terms to accommodate for XXX, XXY, and XYY people, what would be the most realistic terms for those genders?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What are some reasons why men may not want to date a woman who can pay her own bills?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

That's it for today.

What are some signs he is deeply in love with you?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What’s a historical event you wish more people talked about?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What did someone say to you that instantly made you realize their life was in danger?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Ask yourself:

Do you think that drug addiction is a symptom of larger societal ills? What is it about our culture that leaves so many feeling like they're inadequate, trying any ill to find a cure?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Making more friends is a goal.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Saving $10,000 is a goal.